The mistress
Dream
I am visiting my mistress. She is a Chinese lady, about 50 years old, and she lives in a cheap looking bedsit, but it is clean and light. She has been my mistress for a while but we haven't consummated the relationship. She won't let me have sex with her. But we are very intimate with each other. We are in bed together, fully clothed, our bodies pressed tightly together. She is wearing clothing like a Chinese peasant woman would wear. I am dry humping her, I'm very sexually aroused, I am close to having an orgasm, when she, suddenly undresses me and takes off all her clothes as well. This is the first time I have seen her naked body. She has beautiful skin, and small breasts. She also has a very small, immature vagina, and no pubic hair. She takes a condom off a coat hook, on the wall, by the bed, and unfolds it. It is very large and puts it on my penis and she gets on top of me. I woke up at that point.
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Dream notes and associations
This was a daydream. Reminded me of the suppository dream, which was, also, a daydream. Connection with recent dreams where I'm having sex with someone and I haven't got a condom. And dreams where I am dry humping someone. Her peasant's uniform is a dark blue. When she undresses me it reminded me of the seaside dream. I also have an immature penis (in the dream). So the condom is way to big for it but it forms a plastic sheet which covers my stomach, genitals and thighs.
My feelings throughout the dream and on awakening
Very erotic.
Hi Lindsay, that’s so interesting that you both have immature genitals in this dream. The condom suggests there has been some foresight or preparation re the situation but perhaps more time is needed for growth and maturity.
Hi Martina, I said this was a daydream. I fell asleep in front of the tv, the program was ‘China Tonight’, so that is where the Chinese lady comes from. I think my ‘mistress’, in real life, is my family tree. Penny goes to bed, and I stay up to the wee small hours researching my family tree. Last weekend I had made a breakthrough on my father’s side of the tree. On mum’s side I have travelled back as far as the 16th century. The earliest birth recorded on the tree is 1545, my 10X great grandparents. But on dad’s side I have only got back to my great-great-grandparents, and only about 4 of a possible 16 of them. Last week I made contact with a lady on Ancestry who turned out to be my third cousin, that I had not known. With her help I have gone back another 3 generations. Not sure how the immature genitals, or the condom, fit into that scenario. But I’m sure there is an explanation.
The accommodation reminded me of my accommodation in the prison camp in my shit dream. Not sure that I can connect the 2 dreams though beyond that fact. Also what about the condom on the coat hook. What’s that about? A phallic symbol I’m guessing?
What I meant to say in comparison between the prison camp to the bedsit was that it provided basic comfort, not luxurious.
Hi Lindsay, interesting to note the basic comfort of the accomodation – there’s also something about the condom being a protective measure that covers other parts of your body as well as your penis.