Nude Wrestling
Dream
I am a teenager and I am at a large open field. It is a wrestling training camp. There are hundreds of teenagers, male and female, here and we are all naked. I have just wrestled two girls (not at once) and a third girl is waiting to wrestle me. Because I have an erection I decide that I do not want to wrestle her. Instead I go and look for two male friends of mine. I find them wrestling inside a room. They are 2 very big beefy boys and their wrestling style is very physical but it is also quite ballet-like at the same time. They remind me of 2 sumo wrestlers. Suddenly both their bodies slam into my body and the 3 of us are now wrestling each other, simultaneously. It is such an expression of joy except that it is starting to feel sexual and I am starting to feel a bit concerned about that. It feels like I'm not in control. I returned to the dream later in the morning, before I woke up and there was something about a lie that I had told.
Dream notes and associations
I can relate this to the threesome dream. The bashing dream perhaps. Also my teenage memories of a school mate who always liked to wrestle me and, on some occasions, I ended up naked and with an erection. In the dream I knew and recognised the 2 mates, in the dream, but I have no idea who they are in real life. Possibly one of them could represent my wrestling school mate, he was a big, solid boy, but not that big. The other thing I remember is that none of the boys, me included, had any body hair. I can remember, around the age of 11 or 12, my body, suddenly became very hairy and I hated it. The lie at the end of it is interesting. I am wondering if this is a reference to my lying in state dream. When I typed out the title I realised that lying had 2 meanings.
My feelings throughout the dream and on awakening
erotic and joyful, not in control.
It has just occurred to me that this is not only a sexual dream but it is an incubated dream as well. Saturday afternoon Penny and I saw the movie; “Good Luck to You, Leo Grande.” (Highly recommended). When I got into bed that night I pondered what dream would that movie bring up and I was thinking particularly in relation to the threesome dream. The plot is about a 62 year old Religious Education Teacher (Emma Thompson) who wants to know what has she been missing out on all these past years, in relation to sex, so she hires a gigolo to find out. She has been a widow for 2 years but her late husband apparently wasn’t up to the task in the bedroom, although they did have 2 children. Her husband was the only person she had slept with and had sex with in her life. The first meeting with Leo Grande, the gigolo, she was nervous, jottery, racked with guilt, as you would imagine. The second meeting she is a little more relaxed but as she got closer to the moment that they would have sex, she would suddenly feel that she was losing control and pull back. Leo was constantly telling her to just let go and go with the flow (or words to that effect) In the above dream I am experiencing sheer joy as the 3 of us wrestle together but as soon as it feels sexual I feel like that I am losing control. In the threesome dream there was no fear of losing control. We all just went for it. So some food for thought. Enjoy your break.
Hi Lindsay, that’s an interesting point that as soon as things feel sexual there is a fear of losing control which interrupts the sheer joy of wrestling. Also interesting that you avoided wrestling with the third girl due to your erection. I love the image of the sumo-like wrestlers, physical but ballet-like – they would be wonderful to embody.