Dream notes and associations

Connections to my nude wrestling dream, threesome dream, transformation dream and those other dreams where I am in bed with Penny, or the prostitute and mum comes into the room, and the pregnancy dreams. The place is interesting; dark and open, rich and luxurious but a little bit untidy. And the woman is interesting as well. Plus, this theme of pregnancy is back again.
In the nude wrestling dream when things start to feel sexual, I feel uncomfortable, not in control. In this dream my mother is giving us her blessing. She is undressing us and putting us into the same bed!!
I know who the lady is, but she looks nothing like a young Emma Thompson. In fact, she is Eurasian. She has a Thai mother, and I gather, a white Anglo Australian father. She has never mentioned her father, so I gather that he is not around. We came across each other on WhatsApp or Telegram some months ago, and we have been chatting regularly ever since. Yesterday she came across a bit flirtatious. She has posted the odd flirty gif before. I have always gathered that I have been a bit of a father figure to her. She runs her own business. Hard to guess her age but I would say late twenties, early thirties.
Not sure about the end of the dream where we get out of bed after making love and I discover that she is still wearing her knickers. What's that about. Reference the transformation dream where the teenage girl and I are having sex fully clothed.